Unpacking the phenomenon of cancel culture within families

And finding ways to counter its impact through curiosity, compassion and a willingness to listen

“Bawloein wali baatein mat karo.” [Don’t talk like crazy people]

“Paagal ho gayi ho kya?” [Have you gone mad?]

“Stop behaving like a child.”

In countless familial and interpersonal arguments, I’ve heard such phrases being passed at me, or others in the family, simply to disregard an opinion. These statements interject a conversation and deem an opinion …